Today's world brings new harms that demand new life skills. We teach them.
Every day we're exposed to increasingly extreme content online. This is harmful because we get used to it, and when we get used to things, they start to feel like they're okay. Boundaries get blurred, consent becomes confusing and unhealthy behaviours get normalised.
The Sex Lies and Love Project shines a light on how explicit content and other harmful influences impact everyday life, both online & offline.
We work with sporting bodies, schools, colleges and businesses to give talks, workshops and training.
Our mission is to empower people with practical tools and advice that's designed to prevent harm and nurture a healthier future.
The digital landscape is reshaping how young people understand relationships, boundaries and consent.
8 out of 10
Of the main sources children access pornography are social media or networking sites
Source: Children's Commissioner report, August 2025
58%
Of respondents had seen porn depicting strangulation before they turned 18
Source: Children's Commissioner report, August 2025
40%
Of teenagers in relationships are a victim of relationship abuse
Source: VAWG strategy, 2025
89%
Increase in online grooming crimes against children in 6 years (2024)
Almost half of the offences were on Snapchat (48%), where a means of communication was known.
1 in 4
Women and 1 in 18 men in England & Wales have experienced rape or sexual assault since the age of 16
Source: Office for National Statistics 2024. Released 2025.
Who we work with
Sports Organisations
Building safer cultures from grassroots to the professional game.
We deliver training for athletes, staff, and families at all levels, male and female, to challenge harmful influences, set clear boundaries and ensure that well-being is prioritised on and off the pitch.
From the first year of secondary school through university transitions, we provide students, staff, and parents with age-appropriate workshops to help them recognise online harms, understand consent and build healthier educational environments.
Protecting your workforce and your professional reputation
We partner with forward-thinking organisations to equip leadership teams and employees with the practical tools to recognise harassment, navigate professional boundaries and foster a workplace culture built on accountability and respect.
Integrating vital life skills into vocational excellence.
We provide expert consulting and training for leading UK providers to help meet Ofsted safeguarding requirements and ensure apprentices are equipped with the personal safety and resilience skills needed for the modern workplace.
Looking for something more tailored? The SLL Project provides high-level consultancy and specialist services
Consulting
Expert guidance on policy development, ensuring internal structures reflect modern safeguarding needs and develop age-appropriate learning modules for existing programmes.
Focus Groups
Facilitated, safe-space discussions to gather authentic insights from your students, athletes, or employees and create a tailored programme of support.
Keynote Speaking
Impactful presentations for conferences, boardrooms, and large-scale events.
Libby Flenley is a Social Work England registered professional specialising in exploitation and sexual violence, with a CPCAB Accredited counselling qualification and a career spent tackling exploitation both in the UK and abroad.
Libby doesn't just teach theory; she brings the authentic reality of a practitioner dedicated to creating safer spaces for all. Through the SLL Project, along with her team, she empowers communities to look beyond basic consent, teaching them to trust their instincts and build a future where safety and respect are the standard.
Our mission is to empower people with practical tools and advice that's designed to prevent harm and nurture a healthier future.
"Libby has a unique ability to make the most uncomfortable topics accessible and actionable for our staff and students."
— Specsavers
"These sessions really do have the power to change lives - and to save them."
Dudley Phoenix Collegiate Assistant Head Teacher
“That was really superb. Your enthusiasm is infectious for a frightening and difficult topic.
S4S Teachers Training Participant
"Libby and the Sex Lies and Love project delivers on difficult yet important topics for teenagers which informs, creates conversations and ultimately empowers the young people present to take safeguards to protect themselves now and in later life. Libby is a strong presenter and is able to connect with the room to create an engaging session for all."
Chelsea FC
“Your passion and knowledge was very clear. Thank you for a really interesting and informative webinar”
S4S Teachers Training Participant
Age-appropriate content
Our work is built on the principle that one size does not fit all. We adapt our language and delivery to meet the specific needs of each group
The peace sign
For younger audiences, we use our "Peace Sign" branding. This focuses on staying safe, being kind online, and building positive relationships.
Real-world relevance
We bridge the gap between education and the day-to-day digital lives of young people, ensuring every conversation is easy to understand and relevant.
Expertly crafted
Every programme is developed by Libby Flenley to ensure safeguarding and sensitivity are at the heart of the message.
Not sure where to start?
Every organisation faces unique challenges. Let's have an informal conversation to discuss your specific needs and how we can support your team.
